It is OK to Ask for Help
I once saw a great meme that said: “I’m not young enough to know everything.”
As children, we depended on our parents’ guidance, but as we grew older, we believed we knew everything and no longer needed their advice.
I suspect that those of us who are more seasoned in life—having grown a bit wiser—now wish we didn’t have to make so many difficult decisions on our own. In recent weeks, I encountered several situations that prompted me to seek various forms of support: moral support, technical assistance, and legal guidance. Basically, I just needed support in general!
While it’s important to use your own judgment and take responsibility for your life and choices without relying on others to think for you, it’s equally wise to be humble and honest enough to ask for help when you’re feeling stuck. This is akin to the difference between driving in circles for hours and taking a moment to ask someone for directions. Life is too short to learn everything solely through trial and error.
We are all surrounded by people who possess different levels of knowledge and experience in various areas of life. Some may have more time, strength, or skills than we do, and we might also be that person for someone else. If you are feeling stressed about your career, relationships, finances, health, a troublesome habit, or spiritual concerns, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. Connect with a friend, family member, a professional in your field, a coach, a pastor, or even an online community. Remember, you don’t have to manage everything on your own. Even if you don’t receive the exact guidance you seek, you’ll find comfort in knowing that you’re not alone.
Ann-Margret Hovsepian has written professionally for over 25 years and has illustrated coloring books since 2015. She has written hundreds of articles and is a bestselling author, co-author, or illustrator of multiple books.
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